Love Ruins Everything follows the adventures of Nomi Rabinovitch, a sweet but insecure and bumbling butch lesbian as she recovers from a broken heart and negotiates her way back into the dating scene in San Francisco. Summoned home to Toronto to attend her mother’s surprise second wedding, Nomi is drawn into AIDS activism with her gay, HIV positive cousin Henry and Julie Sakamoto, the new woman of her dreams. Humour, romance and tragedy are woven through this warm, funny and thought-provoking portrayal of Queer life at the end of the last century.